The Trespass of Brethren (Chapter 6: pp 63-77)
An offended friend is harder to win back than a fortified city. – Proverbs 18:19, New Living Translation
Better a thousand enemies outside the house than one inside. – Arabic proverb
Exploited Kisses
Some trespasses are harder to forgive or forget, because they come from “brethren,” from people who sit with us, eat with us, live with us under the same roof; members of the same sworn team, or children of the same Father. That was what Joseph faced: “the trespass of thy brethren.” Those were not just “brethren,” they were “THY brethren,” his own blood brothers. That is what sometimes makes it worse: “thy brethren” – in their plural number against your singular self; in their malicious majority against your defenceless minority; in their conspiratorial unity against your voiceless innocence: “thy brethren.” Jesus was betrayed by one whom He called a “friend” (Matthew 26:50), one who exploited the lovely language of a kiss to betray his Master (Luke 22:48).

